Accepted on a completely on an almost completely offtopic note. Funny how that works.
Bargin, while you have shown to be better as of recently that sort of behaviour is still unacceptable. We're supposed to be role models and professional. While it does admittedly get stressful at times, myself not being innocent of talking smack to players during an ahelp, if you really feel pressure coming on just ask another admin to come deal with it if it gets heated.